  {"id":218507,"date":"2025-07-10T14:05:29","date_gmt":"2025-07-11T00:05:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/?p=218507"},"modified":"2025-07-18T09:09:05","modified_gmt":"2025-07-18T19:09:05","slug":"nursing-grad-empowered-by-mentorship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/2025\/07\/10\/nursing-grad-empowered-by-mentorship\/","title":{"rendered":"Nursing graduate inspired by empathy, empowered by mentorship"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 2<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><figure id=\"attachment_218510\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-218510\" style=\"width: 674px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-students.jpeg\" alt=\"three women smiling\" width=\"674\" height=\"381\" class=\"size-full wp-image-218510\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-students.jpeg 674w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-students-300x170.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-students-130x73.jpeg 130w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 674px) 100vw, 674px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-218510\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Emma Tilitile (right) at her nursing pinning ceremony with students she tutored, Abby Avelar and Denise Duque.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Growing up in <span aria-label=\"Waianae\">Wai&#699;anae<\/span> surrounded by nurses in her family, Emma Tilitile was inspired by their deep compassion for patients and community, a spirit she carried with her through nursing school at the University of <span aria-label=\"Hawaii\">Hawai&#699;i<\/span> at M\u0101noa. In spring 2025, she earned her <abbr title=\"bachelor of science\">BS<\/abbr> in nursing from the <a href=\"http:\/\/nursing.hawaii.edu\">School of Nursing and Dental Hygiene<\/a> (<abbr>SONDH<\/abbr>), while also becoming a dedicated mentor to fellow students.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_218511\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-218511\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-classmates-300x170.jpeg\" alt=\"group of nursing students\" width=\"300\" height=\"170\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-218511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-classmates-300x170.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-classmates-130x73.jpeg 130w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-classmates.jpeg 676w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-218511\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tilitile with nursing classmates: Hailey Galam-Keller, Jill Teneza, CJ Kato and Aimirose-Ann Battad.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>A proud graduate of <span aria-label=\"Waianae\">Wai&#699;anae<\/span> High School, Tilitile got a head start on college through <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/dualcredit\/early-college\/\">Early College programs<\/a> at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.leeward.hawaii.edu\">Leeward Community College<\/a> and <abbr title=\"东精影业\">东精影业<\/abbr> West <span aria-label=\"Oahu\">O&#699;ahu<\/span>. Combined with her coursework at <abbr>东精影业<\/abbr> M\u0101noa, those credits helped her earn an Associate in Arts degree in fall 2024 through the university\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/2016\/01\/12\/uh-leads-the-nation-with-reverse-transfer-program\/\">reverse transfer program<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Still, the path to becoming a nurse wasn\u2019t without moments of doubt. &ldquo;Once I entered nursing school, and things got tough, I questioned whether I had made the right choice,&rdquo; she said.<\/p>\n<p>In her final semester, while caring for a patient recovering from open-heart surgery in the Queen\u2019s Medical Center\u2019s cardiovascular <abbr>ICU<\/abbr>, she found clarity. &ldquo;They thanked me and told me I\u2019d be a great nurse,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;Until then, I knew I wanted to be a nurse, but I wasn\u2019t always sure I\u2019d be a good one. Hearing that reaffirmed that this is my path.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<h2>From mentee to mentor<\/h2>\n<p>Inspired by the guidance she received, Tilitile gave back as a mentor through <abbr>东精影业<\/abbr> M\u0101noa\u2019s <span aria-label=\"Hawaii\">Hawai&#699;i<\/span> Undergraduate Initiative, a partnership between the Academic Resource Center and the Student Nurses Association that supports students who, like her, were learning how to navigate the challenges of nursing school.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_218515\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-218515\" style=\"width: 250px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-pinning.jpg\" alt=\"siegman and tilitile at pinning ceremony\" width=\"250\" height=\"250\" class=\"size-full wp-image-218515\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-pinning.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/manoa-nursing-tilitile-pinning-130x130.jpg 130w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-218515\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nursing Professor William &#8220;Bill&#8221; Siegman congratulates Tilitile at the pinning ceremony.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&ldquo;My first semester was tough. We had to shift from a &lsquo;normal&rsquo; way of thinking to a nurse\u2019s way of thinking,&rdquo; Tilitile said. &ldquo;What\u2019s considered common sense in nursing doesn\u2019t feel like common sense at first. You have to retrain your brain. As a mentor, I tried to help students make that shift more smoothly. Practice helps, but having someone guide you makes a big difference.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>One moment she\u2019ll never forget came at her pinning ceremony, when a student she had tutored virtually, showed up in person to thank her. &ldquo;That one session helped her pass her exam,&rdquo; Tilitile said. &ldquo;It reassured me that maybe my actions do make a difference.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Mentoring also helped her grow. &ldquo;I found joy in teaching and sharing what I\u2019d learned,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;It\u2019s shaped my goals, and I hope to keep mentoring and maybe teach nursing students someday.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>She added, &ldquo;Mentoring deepened my empathy. Patients are often vulnerable and unsure, relying on us for care and comfort. That\u2019s something I carry with me.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>She is now preparing to take the <abbr>NCLEX<\/abbr> (National Council Licensure Examination) test which must be passed to become a licensed Registered Nurse. Tilitile plans to pursue a career in critical care nursing with a focus on cardiovascular health and eventually wants to return to school to become a family nurse practitioner. <\/p>\n<p><em>&#8212; by Arlene Abiang<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><abbr>东精影业<\/abbr> M\u0101noa nursing graduate Emma Tilitile of <span aria-label=\"Waianae\">Wai&#699;anae<\/span> reflects on how mentorship and empathy shaped her path to becoming a nurse.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[90,1047,65,1051,189,167,71,9,59],"class_list":["post-218507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-people","tag-alumni","tag-early-college","tag-leeward-community-college","tag-mentorship","tag-nursing","tag-school-of-nursing-and-dental-hygiene","tag-uh-community-colleges","tag-uh-manoa","tag-uh-west-oahu","entry","has-media"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/218507","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/16"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=218507"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/218507\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":218866,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/218507\/revisions\/218866"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=218507"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=218507"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=218507"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}